I wanted to open up with you and tell you the story of how I went against what is believed to be right, only to find myself in the best place I’ve been in yet. Society is full of what … Continue reading
Many people believe that there are such things as trends etc. but I don’t. People believe that you have to be like them to be fashionable, but I don’t. I think all you’ve gotta do is – be yourself. What good is it to be someone else? Are you scared to show people who you are, because that’s all you got and you are afraid they wouldn’t like you for who you are? Well, then why in the world do you need them? You shouldn’t focus on what other people think, I know it, trust me. If you let those people in your head, you are going to lower your self-esteem for about 50%, and you wouldn’t like that, would you?
Well, it’s as simple as that. You are the only person in your head. If you do not love yourself, how can you expect somebody else to love you? You have to realize that you’re unique, that you are you, and that’s a great thing. Some may say I’m talking bullshit here, but well, I talk about what I know, I would never write about something random, just like that. No, I want to tell you, that you are the best person to be you, cause noone else could do that as good as you can, well, isn’t that true? I suggest to go and stand in front of the mirror and write down:
– 5 things you love about yourself (things you would not want to change)
– 5 things you like about yourself (things that are kinda beautiful and you have no problems with them)
then write down:
– 1 thing you hate about yourself
-1 thing you don’t really like about yourself
and ask- why? cause others do/don’t? If the answer is no, because I do/don’t, then you are on the right path.